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"We, as human beings, behave and act not in accordance with the truth as the truth might really be, but we behave and act in accordance with the truth as we think it to be or believe it to be."- Lou Tice
 

"Today's Wisdom" - For Father's Day 2013

For those of your who know me "closely", or are around me regularly, have surely heard me say this, many times.  I believe this and I live this concept.  So, how does this tie into my Father, or your Father, or Father's Day?  Well, I also believe that this "Truth" that Lou Tice's quote above speaks to, is the truth that we allow ourselves to believe... as it relates to "who we are".  It is a primary factor in our self esteem, or really our core belief, as to what the "Truth" is that we believe ourselves to be.  It relates to the person that we are in our mind and subconscious, and who we really believe, is "Who We Are".
 
This is so important in our daily lives because it affects our "self talk".  You know we all talk to ourselves constantly, even when we are listening to someone who is talking to us.  We are talking to ourselves... about like whether or not we "buy" what they are saying, what we may object to, "how much longer is Phil going to talk!", where we have to be in 30 minutes, etc.  Mostly, I believe, we are formulating what we are going to say when they stop talking, lol.  We are constantly thinking and talking to ourselves at an amazingly fast pace, and when they stop talking............................... our rate of self talk increases by about 5-6 times in pace.
 
The "Truth" that I and Lou speak of here is also shaped greatly by who told us "who we are" while we were mostly in our adolescent, teen, and young adult life.  Our parents were primary to that belief, that "Truth", that we felt as to who we were and, in large part, who we are today.  Of course others helped shape that "Truth"... Our school teachers, our friends, the people we "hung with", the bully's on the playground, college professors, and many other people influenced, in part, who we believe we are... IF WE LET THEM.  I put this in caps because it is so important.  Because it is only the ones that WE GIVE SANCTION TO, that we allowed or allow today ourselves to believe, that can affect who we really believe we are and what the real "Truth" is that we believe about who we are.  You may be able to BS those around you, but you cannot BS yourself.  You know "The Truth" deep down inside as to who you really are.
 
My Father taught me a lot of things.  He worked from "Can to Can't" each day... so I learned good work ethic.  He taught me that the truth always floats to the top.  He taught to kill others with kindness, especially if you don't agree or like them (drives them crazy!).  He also taught me how to use a screw driver as a chisel... NOT a good idea! (that led to many a bloody knuckle or smashed finger).  He taught me many things, more from what I saw him do, than what he told me.  But the most important thing that he, and my Mother, gave/taught me was... Unconditional Positive Regard and Unconditional Positive Love.  They accepted me for who and what I was, and who and what I am today, unconditionally.  That affected the "Truth" about how I felt about myself, my self talk, my self esteem, more than any other single factor, and it is a huge part of "Who I Am" or at least try to be, today.
 
So that's my message for today.  Your "Take Aways", I hope, are:
 
-- The quote above that I encourage you to read again, slowly, and thoughtfully.
 
-- "Self Talk" and why it is so important for us... to understand that it exists, and that we can control it to reshape our belief in "The Truth as we think it to be or believe it to be".
 
-- That we are only truly affected by what others say about us, if we give it sanction... if we allow them to have this power over us.  Who are they?  Who are they to judge you and tell you who you are!  Only you can allow or disallow them that power.
 
OK, that's it for "Today's Wisdom"... til next time, keep looking up!
 
OH, I almost forgot.  As of this offering of "Today's Wisdom", I will begin to offer a song to support, "give sanction to", or that somehow relates to my offering for your consideration.  Here is a link to today's (Headphones, or a place that will allow cranked up speakers is highly recommended!)
 

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Much Obliged, Phil
Make it an exceptional day... It is yours to think, see, believe and make happen!
 
Phil Dildine, CCIM (What is a CCIM?) 
Head Coach & Team Owner - CLOUD REALTY, LLC(formerly The Morris Companies, LLC)

 

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